Bringing a new employee onboard is not unlike starting a brand new relationship. You want to make sure they are happy and like their new environment, plus you could not be more attentive be better behavior. At the same time you are cautious and hopeful that this one will work out. Fast forward a year or two. Did things change? Probably.
Maybe it’s a natural occurrence, but after a while you begin to take certain things for granted. You stop using “please” when making requests, and “thank you’s” nearly vanish from your vocabulary. Let’s face it, the honeymoon is over. The first step is to realize that this is a normal part of any relationship. The second, is to do something about it.
As managers and owners we assume lots of things about our employees. The first is that money cures all ills. If I pay them enough they will be happy. Yet, in the days of do more with less, salary freezes, pay cuts, furloughs and one hundred other ways that companies ask employees to sacrifice every day, strokes and basic politeness is a currency with no substitutes. I have yet to see a person not get an uplift by hearing their boss say to them “good job.”. In fact, just the opposite happens. They wear it as a badge of honor, plus you can be sure it will keep them motivated to repeat their performance. Even more can be said about a simple “thank you”. What makes it so hard for some to mutter those words and why? I will leave the Freudian psychoanalysis for another day, but in reality our society has become impolite, we have become more discourteous, and that has unquestionably seeped into our workplace.
Happy employees results in profitability. I can hear it already, “well now you’re really stretching it Bob”. Not at all. Happy equals motivation which equals productivity which inevitably leads to efficiency and then to the promise land of profit. When you come in to the office tomorrow, don’t run straight to your office. Make it a point to say “good morning” to your staff. Whether it is natural for you or not, also make it a point to sprinkle your day with “thank you’s”, “good job’s” and “I appreciate it.” If you really feel dangerous then offer to make them coffee. Sure you may get hesitant looks, but your work environment will feel new again, happier. And here is the added benefit, you will too.
Bob Shoykhethttp://cxoeffect.com/about/bobshoykhet


